Fall Month: 3 
Day 
Hurricane | Chatbox |
| Charalander |
| Anyway my mom loves Freddie Mercury too so I think we should acquaint our moms to each other /silly |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, There are some things that I just don't expect my parents to get anymore, like for example I need to take meds for a condition I have, right? I've explained to them the gist of both how my meds and my condition work, and they STILL get it wrong even after checking with my psychiatrist to clear up doubts I've learnt to kinda slide my expectations down on that type of thing It doesn't mean one should be a doormat, but I know when to pick my battles |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara no yeah it seems like theres a bell curve there are some older people who are really accepting its just like,,, gen x?? for some reason?? funny thing is my mom loves freddie mercury and she thinks drag is,, i dunno, interesting? fun? so i dont know where shes getting this from |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, Talk about it!! My mom is almost 70 and she's more open minded than my dad who's 50-something Earlier some people were joking about showing your parents a man in a dress, and the first thing I thought of was of Freddie Mercury in "I want to break free" Could unironically be an actual argument, "are you saying my close personal friend Freddie Mercury is a WOMAN? You're crazy" |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara yeah theyre in their mid-50s they keep going "well in MY time... they way I learned..." girl science progresses i dont know how to do that either </3 |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, I get your logic, and those are all facts, but the reality is that a lot of older people won't understand your reasoning I've given up on a lot of those battles with my own parents, sometimes it's less about making them understand and more about making them respect it You have to work with "their logic", not against it I guess I don't know if this is helpful, sorry |
| Eye of Eternity |
| and sometimes its not personal preference because what we're arguing(?) about is that my trans boyfriend wears dresses to formal events which im pretty sure is because hes not allowed to get masculine formalwear |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara basically sex does not equal gender does not equal pronouns does not equal presentation and it all really just comes down to personal preference barley please direct me to this man i would love to show them /silly |
| Hellions |
| Tern, Show them the straight white man with a loving family who wore heels and a skirt to work every day, while wearing a suit top, to show that clothes are just clothes /vsilly/hj |
| Eye of Eternity |
| fighting for my life trying to explain to my parents that the clothes you wear doesnt determine your gender </3 how do i do it how do i make it make sense to them |
| Charalander |
| resentment/anger at the end* Will Wood comes into scene and suddenly I can no longer write in English |
| Charalander |
| Chaotic Laughing, Yesss, for me the hard hitter is "Let's get you home", like that little resentment (? anger?) and then he's like "nah girl let's get you home you're tripping" that song is BEAUTIFUL also Willard >>> |
| Chaotic Laughing |
| Oh my stars i second that, love The normal Album but most of my friends know me as "that one guy who really loves Against The Kitchen Floor" |
| Charalander |
| "The normal album" rocks but "in case I make it" has my heart on a chokehold and has had it that way since release |
| Quests |
| Alliance Battles |
| Challenges |
 | Red Fox : -4 |
| Coyote : -1 |
| Margay : +5 |
| Chatbox |
| Charalander |
| Anyway my mom loves Freddie Mercury too so I think we should acquaint our moms to each other /silly |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, There are some things that I just don't expect my parents to get anymore, like for example I need to take meds for a condition I have, right? I've explained to them the gist of both how my meds and my condition work, and they STILL get it wrong even after checking with my psychiatrist to clear up doubts I've learnt to kinda slide my expectations down on that type of thing It doesn't mean one should be a doormat, but I know when to pick my battles |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara no yeah it seems like theres a bell curve there are some older people who are really accepting its just like,,, gen x?? for some reason?? funny thing is my mom loves freddie mercury and she thinks drag is,, i dunno, interesting? fun? so i dont know where shes getting this from |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, Talk about it!! My mom is almost 70 and she's more open minded than my dad who's 50-something Earlier some people were joking about showing your parents a man in a dress, and the first thing I thought of was of Freddie Mercury in "I want to break free" Could unironically be an actual argument, "are you saying my close personal friend Freddie Mercury is a WOMAN? You're crazy" |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara yeah theyre in their mid-50s they keep going "well in MY time... they way I learned..." girl science progresses i dont know how to do that either </3 |
| Charalander |
| Eternity, I get your logic, and those are all facts, but the reality is that a lot of older people won't understand your reasoning I've given up on a lot of those battles with my own parents, sometimes it's less about making them understand and more about making them respect it You have to work with "their logic", not against it I guess I don't know if this is helpful, sorry |
| Eye of Eternity |
| and sometimes its not personal preference because what we're arguing(?) about is that my trans boyfriend wears dresses to formal events which im pretty sure is because hes not allowed to get masculine formalwear |
| Eye of Eternity |
| chara basically sex does not equal gender does not equal pronouns does not equal presentation and it all really just comes down to personal preference barley please direct me to this man i would love to show them /silly |
| Hellions |
| Tern, Show them the straight white man with a loving family who wore heels and a skirt to work every day, while wearing a suit top, to show that clothes are just clothes /vsilly/hj |
| Eye of Eternity |
| fighting for my life trying to explain to my parents that the clothes you wear doesnt determine your gender </3 how do i do it how do i make it make sense to them |
| Charalander |
| resentment/anger at the end* Will Wood comes into scene and suddenly I can no longer write in English |
| Charalander |
| Chaotic Laughing, Yesss, for me the hard hitter is "Let's get you home", like that little resentment (? anger?) and then he's like "nah girl let's get you home you're tripping" that song is BEAUTIFUL also Willard >>> |
| Chaotic Laughing |
| Oh my stars i second that, love The normal Album but most of my friends know me as "that one guy who really loves Against The Kitchen Floor" |
| Charalander |
| "The normal album" rocks but "in case I make it" has my heart on a chokehold and has had it that way since release |