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VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia I just wanna stop feeling the way I do when she does it. It isn't fair to her, and I don't wanna say anything to her because I don't want her to stop sharing what she thinks is neat. I'll just stop sharing my stuff. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK That answers my question, you are envious that other people get more enthusiasm about their art from your friend than your friend points towards your art |
Prevail |
As everyone has said, it's not a problem unless you want to act on the feeling |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo I don't know, actually. Maybe a mix of both? I have really bad self-esteem issues so it could probably be envy? |
Prevail |
Petri If you're jealous because she shows more interest in other people's art than yours, then that's perfectly normal |
TheFlyingKitten |
I don't do anything mean or have any mean thoughts towards her! I can assure you that. I'd never want to hurt a friend, no matter how they make me feel. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK is it jealousy or envy? envy is wanting what someone else has, while jealousy is the fear of losing something (or someone) you already possess to another person |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia We both have OCs that we really like and RP with sometimes, but sometimes she shows off art of her own OC that she's managed to get others to draw. She shows interest in other peoples' art with so much enthusiasm, but when I share mine she's like "Nice" or "That's pretty neat". She's not trying to be mean, I know, but I just... I dunno... |
Prevail |
Petri Jealousy is a completely human emotion. To some degree, it may even be healthy as long as you don't feel the want/need to act on it |
Fernweh. |
TFK for having a human emotion? absolutely not, very normal! what WOULD be bad is if you used that feeling to justify being toxic or mean, but simply feeling something is never wrong ^^ |
The rat lord |
ENA Mum No it’s called being human, it’s bad if your jealous and are mean and hurt the person |
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VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia I just wanna stop feeling the way I do when she does it. It isn't fair to her, and I don't wanna say anything to her because I don't want her to stop sharing what she thinks is neat. I'll just stop sharing my stuff. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK That answers my question, you are envious that other people get more enthusiasm about their art from your friend than your friend points towards your art |
Prevail |
As everyone has said, it's not a problem unless you want to act on the feeling |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo I don't know, actually. Maybe a mix of both? I have really bad self-esteem issues so it could probably be envy? |
Prevail |
Petri If you're jealous because she shows more interest in other people's art than yours, then that's perfectly normal |
TheFlyingKitten |
I don't do anything mean or have any mean thoughts towards her! I can assure you that. I'd never want to hurt a friend, no matter how they make me feel. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK is it jealousy or envy? envy is wanting what someone else has, while jealousy is the fear of losing something (or someone) you already possess to another person |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia We both have OCs that we really like and RP with sometimes, but sometimes she shows off art of her own OC that she's managed to get others to draw. She shows interest in other peoples' art with so much enthusiasm, but when I share mine she's like "Nice" or "That's pretty neat". She's not trying to be mean, I know, but I just... I dunno... |
Prevail |
Petri Jealousy is a completely human emotion. To some degree, it may even be healthy as long as you don't feel the want/need to act on it |
Fernweh. |
TFK for having a human emotion? absolutely not, very normal! what WOULD be bad is if you used that feeling to justify being toxic or mean, but simply feeling something is never wrong ^^ |
The rat lord |
ENA Mum No it’s called being human, it’s bad if your jealous and are mean and hurt the person |
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