Winter Month: 1 
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| Trippy 420 |
| Eden That's a responsibility fs. Keep her fed and happy, and if she is rude to you, learn to just say "okay" and walk away. That will help you in the future too, when you meet people who simply won't understand. If something pops up, lmk. Again, there's no one right answer to help somebody with demetia, other than giving them the most comfortable life they can have before they're gone entirely. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden I feel that. It's draining as hell- and it hurts us in the long-run. Even if they were that way before, it gets worse with time. It sucks, i feel ya 100%. If you want to be around them, then patience and silence is the only way you will be able to get through the tough times with tme. If it's taking too much of a toll on your mental health though, you still have the choice to sperate from them. If that's what you choose to do, then make sure to push your parents or whoever is taking care of her to be kinder and more patient. At the end of the day, if you love your grandmother, then you'll understand that she's just trying to feel like her old self. It's not right waht she's doing to you, but it's common once someone forgets their daily routine and even the names of their loved ones. I feel ya fr. if you need some1 to talk to, lmk. I come with no judgement, only facts and advice :) |
| Giftofeden |
| Trippy Thats what I am TRYING to do but to be blamed for stuff hurts. to be yelled at and then told you are rude for looking a certain way. She said she would clap me if she could. Skyyy :) |
| Trippy 420 |
| I have taken care of patients with demetia in my line of work. It's hard to see them get deeper and deeper in ther forgetfulness. The only thing you can do is be present, loving, and patient. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden Dementia is tough to deal with- it definetly requires a LOT of patience. It's depressing sometimes to see your grandmother like that, but it's NECCESSARY to be understanding and kind. She thinks she knows a lot, and that's because she's coping with her memory loss. It's becomes worse and worse- there is no cure. The best thing you can do is show her that somebody cares, and that she is not alone. Gentle explainations work- don't tell her that what she thinks is wrong. Just try to give her a new perspective to think about while she is able to remeber. Honestly, try to put yourself in her shoes. It's cheesy to say, but she is struggling far more than anyone around her is even aware. |
| Giftofeden |
| Trippy Muffin is a pup. Also my gran has dimentia so anything we tell her, she forgets. She also fell 2 weeks ago. Also my gran has made it known she knows everything and shes more experienced so what she says goes. -__- |
| Trippy 420 |
| Things with family can be shitty sometimes, I feel ya 100%. I've been in foster care all my life. I truly feel ya. Always try before you figure out a plan by yourself. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden Is Muffin a pup? If so, it just takes time and experience to see what they are up to. Sometimes they do have anxiety issues involved with being around a lot of people, or being in certain places. If that's not the case, then make it known! Communicate with your family, and let them know that your pet needs to experience certain things before it it certain that they can't do those things. Always make sure before you assume :) |
| Giftofeden |
| argholsacjkjhsdkjhn ^^^^ Annoyed as anything but I cant even say anything back then I am rude |
| Giftofeden |
| Long story short, We took Muffin to church (had permission) and As we arrived back home outside the gate she puked. -__- Apparently it's a sign that Muffin has to stay home 24/7 |
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| Trippy 420 |
| Eden That's a responsibility fs. Keep her fed and happy, and if she is rude to you, learn to just say "okay" and walk away. That will help you in the future too, when you meet people who simply won't understand. If something pops up, lmk. Again, there's no one right answer to help somebody with demetia, other than giving them the most comfortable life they can have before they're gone entirely. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden I feel that. It's draining as hell- and it hurts us in the long-run. Even if they were that way before, it gets worse with time. It sucks, i feel ya 100%. If you want to be around them, then patience and silence is the only way you will be able to get through the tough times with tme. If it's taking too much of a toll on your mental health though, you still have the choice to sperate from them. If that's what you choose to do, then make sure to push your parents or whoever is taking care of her to be kinder and more patient. At the end of the day, if you love your grandmother, then you'll understand that she's just trying to feel like her old self. It's not right waht she's doing to you, but it's common once someone forgets their daily routine and even the names of their loved ones. I feel ya fr. if you need some1 to talk to, lmk. I come with no judgement, only facts and advice :) |
| Giftofeden |
| Trippy Thats what I am TRYING to do but to be blamed for stuff hurts. to be yelled at and then told you are rude for looking a certain way. She said she would clap me if she could. Skyyy :) |
| Trippy 420 |
| I have taken care of patients with demetia in my line of work. It's hard to see them get deeper and deeper in ther forgetfulness. The only thing you can do is be present, loving, and patient. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden Dementia is tough to deal with- it definetly requires a LOT of patience. It's depressing sometimes to see your grandmother like that, but it's NECCESSARY to be understanding and kind. She thinks she knows a lot, and that's because she's coping with her memory loss. It's becomes worse and worse- there is no cure. The best thing you can do is show her that somebody cares, and that she is not alone. Gentle explainations work- don't tell her that what she thinks is wrong. Just try to give her a new perspective to think about while she is able to remeber. Honestly, try to put yourself in her shoes. It's cheesy to say, but she is struggling far more than anyone around her is even aware. |
| Giftofeden |
| Trippy Muffin is a pup. Also my gran has dimentia so anything we tell her, she forgets. She also fell 2 weeks ago. Also my gran has made it known she knows everything and shes more experienced so what she says goes. -__- |
| Trippy 420 |
| Things with family can be shitty sometimes, I feel ya 100%. I've been in foster care all my life. I truly feel ya. Always try before you figure out a plan by yourself. |
| Trippy 420 |
| Eden Is Muffin a pup? If so, it just takes time and experience to see what they are up to. Sometimes they do have anxiety issues involved with being around a lot of people, or being in certain places. If that's not the case, then make it known! Communicate with your family, and let them know that your pet needs to experience certain things before it it certain that they can't do those things. Always make sure before you assume :) |
| Giftofeden |
| argholsacjkjhsdkjhn ^^^^ Annoyed as anything but I cant even say anything back then I am rude |
| Giftofeden |
| Long story short, We took Muffin to church (had permission) and As we arrived back home outside the gate she puked. -__- Apparently it's a sign that Muffin has to stay home 24/7 |
