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So I'm coming out to my dad when he visits. My mom and siblings know, but he doesn't, and I want to come out to him. Like it's not something I 'have to' do, but I want to. But not sure which way. I am trans but my dad still knows I'm a girl. That's not true, and I'd like him to know because it makes me uncomfortable when he refers to me as she/her and daughter. I barely see him anyway, so it wouldn't change too much. Telling suggestions and stories would help if you'd like to, but you don't need to ^^ Total Votes: 16
| Get a friend w/ me : | 1 | 6% | | | Wear clothes with flags on it or bracelets : | 0 | 0% | | | Send a text or email : | 0 | 0% | | | Write a script : | 2 | 13% | | | Power point or presentation : | 0 | 0% | | | Let him find out on his own : | 0 | 0% | | | Use a voice recording : | 0 | 0% | | | Take it slow and in steps : | 0 | 0% | | | Other (comment if you'd like to ^^) : | 0 | 0% | | | Don't come out : | 1 | 6% | | | Just tell him like you would to a child : | 0 | 0% | | | Let it happen when it does : | 0 | 0% | | | Telling him about a trans icon : | 0 | 0% | | | Using song Daughter by Ryan Casata : | 0 | 0% | | | Using song I wrote abt being trans : | 0 | 0% | | | Just telling him straight-up (well not straight) : | 12 | 75% | | | Writing a letter : | 0 | 0% | | You have cast your vote. Edited at June 29, 2025 08:35 AM by SunGaze |
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the best thing you can do is give it to him straight up, plain and simple. something as short as, "dad, im trans. i am a boy, not a girl. please refer to me as (name, if you chose a new one) and these pronouns".as long as you know your safe while doing it, just find a quiet time where both of you are in a nice mood and talk to him about it. get whatever you need to out immediately then let him talk and ask questions if he has any. i wish you the best luck and know you are valid whether he supports you or not!! <3 |
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mosspack said:
the best thing you can do is give it to him straight up, plain and simple. something as short as, "dad, im trans. i am a boy, not a girl. please refer to me as (name, if you chose a new one) and these pronouns".as long as you know your safe while doing it, just find a quiet time where both of you are in a nice mood and talk to him about it. get whatever you need to out immediately then let him talk and ask questions if he has any. i wish you the best luck and know you are valid whether he supports you or not!! <3
Thank you so much. I did tell him and I did that. He said "ok," then just went back to what he was doing <3 Your input really helped me :D |
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SunGaze said:
mosspack said:
the best thing you can do is give it to him straight up, plain and simple. something as short as, "dad, im trans. i am a boy, not a girl. please refer to me as (name, if you chose a new one) and these pronouns".as long as you know your safe while doing it, just find a quiet time where both of you are in a nice mood and talk to him about it. get whatever you need to out immediately then let him talk and ask questions if he has any. i wish you the best luck and know you are valid whether he supports you or not!! <3
Thank you so much. I did tell him and I did that. He said "ok," then just went back to what he was doing <3 Your input really helped me :D
im glad it helped! and also that it went smoothly :] |
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