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TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo Maybe some other time. When I don't feel sick to my stomach. She just shared an art piece someone did for her for, like, the eighth time and it's made me kinda upset. Octavia That will NOT be easy for me. But I'll try. Thank you for the help, all of you. |
Prevail |
Petri Whenever you notice yourself feeling that way, it helps to identify the feeling and talk to yourself about it |
Fernweh. |
Cassie Not much! had a busy day in the lab but no class since my chem professor cancelled xD been grinding explore mostly. you? also, what's the totem event you guys are talking about, if you don't mind me asking? don't think I've had it yet. |
Prevail |
Petri I see. I'm sure you've heard that "communication is key". Very true. But if you don't want to bring it up with her, another good thing to do is just acknowledge the feeling and that it's normal and doesn't make you a bad person |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK What if you show your art to us? it can help build confidence, we can give you honest opinions on your art |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Octavia, uh oh T-T yeah I only encountered it once yesterday |
Prevail |
Cassi Yeah, you can still have them, just not as often. Also, that totem explore event we were talking about- definitely rare. ~4k tiles today and I've only encountered it once |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo, Yakuza I'll build myself up to it. Hopefully I'll be able to woman up and tell her sooner rather than later. Octavia I rarely show my art because I have confidence issues, so when she goes "Huh" or anything similar it makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. |
VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
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TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo Maybe some other time. When I don't feel sick to my stomach. She just shared an art piece someone did for her for, like, the eighth time and it's made me kinda upset. Octavia That will NOT be easy for me. But I'll try. Thank you for the help, all of you. |
Prevail |
Petri Whenever you notice yourself feeling that way, it helps to identify the feeling and talk to yourself about it |
Fernweh. |
Cassie Not much! had a busy day in the lab but no class since my chem professor cancelled xD been grinding explore mostly. you? also, what's the totem event you guys are talking about, if you don't mind me asking? don't think I've had it yet. |
Prevail |
Petri I see. I'm sure you've heard that "communication is key". Very true. But if you don't want to bring it up with her, another good thing to do is just acknowledge the feeling and that it's normal and doesn't make you a bad person |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK What if you show your art to us? it can help build confidence, we can give you honest opinions on your art |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Octavia, uh oh T-T yeah I only encountered it once yesterday |
Prevail |
Cassi Yeah, you can still have them, just not as often. Also, that totem explore event we were talking about- definitely rare. ~4k tiles today and I've only encountered it once |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo, Yakuza I'll build myself up to it. Hopefully I'll be able to woman up and tell her sooner rather than later. Octavia I rarely show my art because I have confidence issues, so when she goes "Huh" or anything similar it makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. |
VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
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