Chatbox |
Fernweh. |
Cassie Not much! had a busy day in the lab but no class since my chem professor cancelled xD been grinding explore mostly. you? also, what's the totem event you guys are talking about, if you don't mind me asking? don't think I've had it yet. |
Prevail |
Petri I see. I'm sure you've heard that "communication is key". Very true. But if you don't want to bring it up with her, another good thing to do is just acknowledge the feeling and that it's normal and doesn't make you a bad person |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK What if you show your art to us? it can help build confidence, we can give you honest opinions on your art |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Octavia, uh oh T-T yeah I only encountered it once yesterday |
Prevail |
Cassi Yeah, you can still have them, just not as often. Also, that totem explore event we were talking about- definitely rare. ~4k tiles today and I've only encountered it once |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo, Yakuza I'll build myself up to it. Hopefully I'll be able to woman up and tell her sooner rather than later. Octavia I rarely show my art because I have confidence issues, so when she goes "Huh" or anything similar it makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. |
VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia I just wanna stop feeling the way I do when she does it. It isn't fair to her, and I don't wanna say anything to her because I don't want her to stop sharing what she thinks is neat. I'll just stop sharing my stuff. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK That answers my question, you are envious that other people get more enthusiasm about their art from your friend than your friend points towards your art |
Prevail |
As everyone has said, it's not a problem unless you want to act on the feeling |
Quests |
Alliance Battles |
Challenges |
![]() | Leopard : 0 |
![]() | Grizzly Bear : -5 |
![]() | Baboon : 0 |
Chatbox |
Fernweh. |
Cassie Not much! had a busy day in the lab but no class since my chem professor cancelled xD been grinding explore mostly. you? also, what's the totem event you guys are talking about, if you don't mind me asking? don't think I've had it yet. |
Prevail |
Petri I see. I'm sure you've heard that "communication is key". Very true. But if you don't want to bring it up with her, another good thing to do is just acknowledge the feeling and that it's normal and doesn't make you a bad person |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK What if you show your art to us? it can help build confidence, we can give you honest opinions on your art |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Octavia, uh oh T-T yeah I only encountered it once yesterday |
Prevail |
Cassi Yeah, you can still have them, just not as often. Also, that totem explore event we were talking about- definitely rare. ~4k tiles today and I've only encountered it once |
TheFlyingKitten |
Virgo, Yakuza I'll build myself up to it. Hopefully I'll be able to woman up and tell her sooner rather than later. Octavia I rarely show my art because I have confidence issues, so when she goes "Huh" or anything similar it makes me feel like I'm not doing things right. |
VirgoFoxx |
A healthy relationship (any type, friend,family, romantic, ect) is one where you feel comfortable enough with each other to share your thoughts and feelings |
ConjuringCassiopeia |
Actually- can you still have halloween encounters without brimstone weather? Is it just less often? |
Yakuza |
@Petri - I dunno, I wouldn't try to bury this too deep. You genuinely don't want to hurt your friend but in the process this seems to be hurting you. If you don't adress it, it risks festering within you until it evolves into something worse. Maybe re-frame it and tell your friend that you are feeling a bit self conscious? Not necessarily blaming her for anything, rather explaining why you are feeling this envy |
Prevail |
Petri Could there be a reason she has less of a reaction to your art? Like maybe she sees yours more often, so there's less of a "wow factor" since she's used to it? Which isn't a bad thing, but I fully understand why it would upset you |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK Your feelings are absolutely valid, I suggest bring it up to her-- tell her how you feel, that it feels like shes more enthusiastic about others art than she is towards your art when you share |
TheFlyingKitten |
Octavia I just wanna stop feeling the way I do when she does it. It isn't fair to her, and I don't wanna say anything to her because I don't want her to stop sharing what she thinks is neat. I'll just stop sharing my stuff. |
VirgoFoxx |
TFK That answers my question, you are envious that other people get more enthusiasm about their art from your friend than your friend points towards your art |
Prevail |
As everyone has said, it's not a problem unless you want to act on the feeling |
| ||
Items may not be removed from the auction once it starts. Schedule a raffle. All times are in game time. The date format is yyyy-mm-dd. No raffle currently scheduled. |
| ||