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Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Dude, my mum's been telling me I need help since last year. Like see a therapist or someone I just don't want to worry her cause she's having more injections on Tuesday and is already worried about me 90% of the time like mothers do . bUt sOciAliSinG . Actual disorder? . Hm... I'm pretty sure Mum told me once that I have anxiety, but now I don't remember and thank ye, I'll keep that in mind :)
Then go see a therapist xD Bam. Very direct and blunt advice with Starry xD . Yeah. Half of my family has it, but all of them have learned to cope. He... has not. At all. We actually had to get him to se a therapist because he has a lot of issues. He's terrified of anything different/new, and masks it with agression. He's also lowkey rascist (occasional remarks), sexist, and homophobic. It's kinda weird, because the entire rest of my family is absolutely tolerant of anyone, no matter race, gender, sexuality, etc. He's just a bit of a black sheep, and my parents and him eventually begin to yell at eachother everytime he lets a racist remark slip. It's not great.
I see... I mean, new things can be scary but still. It doesn't sound very great at all >.< Hopefully he can grow out of it or something?
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Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Credits for both go to me asdfghjkl
Those are so good what - :0
Shhh, I was just messing around >.> aRe YoU sAYiNg tHaT mY ARt lOoKs BeTtEr wItH nO eFfoRt? just kidding I'm starting to lose it flipping hell :')
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Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Dude, my mum's been telling me I need help since last year. Like see a therapist or someone I just don't want to worry her cause she's having more injections on Tuesday and is already worried about me 90% of the time like mothers do . bUt sOciAliSinG . Actual disorder? . Hm... I'm pretty sure Mum told me once that I have anxiety, but now I don't remember and thank ye, I'll keep that in mind :)
Then go see a therapist xD Bam. Very direct and blunt advice with Starry xD . Yeah. Half of my family has it, but all of them have learned to cope. He... has not. At all. We actually had to get him to se a therapist because he has a lot of issues. He's terrified of anything different/new, and masks it with agression. He's also lowkey rascist (occasional remarks), sexist, and homophobic. It's kinda weird, because the entire rest of my family is absolutely tolerant of anyone, no matter race, gender, sexuality, etc. He's just a bit of a black sheep, and my parents and him eventually begin to yell at eachother everytime he lets a racist remark slip. It's not great.
I see... I mean, new things can be scary but still. It doesn't sound very great at all >.< Hopefully he can grow out of it or something?
Maybe. We're trying to be as kind and patient with him as possible, but whenever he snaps something "all girls just want guys - they're all just f***ing _______" I lose it. I'm not one to lose my temper easily, but he just tips me over the edge. My parents manage to be a bit more patient with him, but I don't know how.
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Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Credits for both go to me asdfghjkl
Those are so good what - :0
Shhh, I was just messing around >.> aRe YoU sAYiNg tHaT mY ARt lOoKs BeTtEr wItH nO eFfoRt? just kidding I'm starting to lose it flipping hell :')
I LOVE IT As in, I might just steal the one with the blue background I love that one >.< What I think might work well for you went practicing your art is doing stuff like that with sillouhettes.
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Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Dude, my mum's been telling me I need help since last year. Like see a therapist or someone I just don't want to worry her cause she's having more injections on Tuesday and is already worried about me 90% of the time like mothers do . bUt sOciAliSinG . Actual disorder? . Hm... I'm pretty sure Mum told me once that I have anxiety, but now I don't remember and thank ye, I'll keep that in mind :)
Then go see a therapist xD Bam. Very direct and blunt advice with Starry xD . Yeah. Half of my family has it, but all of them have learned to cope. He... has not. At all. We actually had to get him to se a therapist because he has a lot of issues. He's terrified of anything different/new, and masks it with agression. He's also lowkey rascist (occasional remarks), sexist, and homophobic. It's kinda weird, because the entire rest of my family is absolutely tolerant of anyone, no matter race, gender, sexuality, etc. He's just a bit of a black sheep, and my parents and him eventually begin to yell at eachother everytime he lets a racist remark slip. It's not great.
I see... I mean, new things can be scary but still. It doesn't sound very great at all >.< Hopefully he can grow out of it or something?
Maybe. We're trying to be as kind and patient with him as possible, but whenever he snaps something "all girls just want guys - they're all just f***ing _______" I lose it. I'm not one to lose my temper easily, but he just tips me over the edge. My parents manage to be a bit more patient with him, but I don't know how.
Don't learn how to be more patient. Learn how to get it through his thick skull that you are stronger than him and can pin him to the floor in about fifteen seconds. He should not say those things, and letting him say them is too tolerent.
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Yeah, that sounds hard. I honestly would try and murder (like, not actually murder murder, but ya know) him if he said those kind of things to me I can't remember if my brother ever said things like that, but apparently he was slurring my name or something like that a while ago so that was fun to get a visit from the police about ^^'
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Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Credits for both go to me asdfghjkl
Those are so good what - :0
Shhh, I was just messing around >.> aRe YoU sAYiNg tHaT mY ARt lOoKs BeTtEr wItH nO eFfoRt? just kidding I'm starting to lose it flipping hell :')
I LOVE IT As in, I might just steal the one with the blue background I love that one >.< What I think might work well for you went practicing your art is doing stuff like that with sillouhettes.
I can make you another one if you really wanted sometime today >.>
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Celery Yeah. I'm lucky he's smaller than me (he's gonna get his growth spurt really late - as in, probably the latest anyone has ever seen >.<) So I can pretty easily get him to the ground and press my knee into his back until he apologizes. What scares me is when he will get taller than me. . Tadpole :0 That's.... terrifying >.<
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Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Boundless said: Crimson Skies said: Credits for both go to me asdfghjkl
Those are so good what - :0
Shhh, I was just messing around >.> aRe YoU sAYiNg tHaT mY ARt lOoKs BeTtEr wItH nO eFfoRt? just kidding I'm starting to lose it flipping hell :')
I LOVE IT As in, I might just steal the one with the blue background I love that one >.< What I think might work well for you went practicing your art is doing stuff like that with sillouhettes.
I can make you another one if you really wanted sometime today >.>
:0 YES Yes please >.<
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Boundless said: Celery Yeah. I'm lucky he's smaller than me (he's gonna get his growth spurt really late - as in, probably the latest anyone has ever seen >.<) So I can pretty easily get him to the ground and press my knee into his back until he apologizes. What scares me is when he will get taller than me. . Tadpole :0 That's.... terrifying >.<
When he gets taller than you, just kick his legs out from under him, then press your knee into his back.
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