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I'm not dead

Shadows -

That's a good thing. ^^'

xD

I think so-

Doom

ooh, that was fun while it lasted - you could remake, but I'm afraid I might not have the time or brain span to join :')

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ayy, celery's not dead, that's always great ^^

also uh here's a random little question -

so, there's kinda this girl? on my soccer team?

not vague at all -

so, she's openly bisexual, and ya know, good for her ^^ but - she kinda has taken to flirting with me? Like,,, a lot? It pretty much started with her getting my number and texting me a bit, ya know, the normal or whatever. Now, she'll joke around with me, run up and hug me, and kinda not-so-subtly flirt. And yes, I do know what flirting looks like, as does the rest of my team, who are now curious to see how this'll unfold. And now I'm kinda feeling as though I need to sit down and think this through. There has been drama between her having a few crushes on the team, but that drama involved her crushes on the other girls on our team that are bi. Except I'm not really into girls. That's not to say I didn't humour her a flirt back a little >.< (I dunno I had nothing better to do) , but I'm not interested. But she is. but we have differing sexualities that don't aline. It kinda makes me uncomfortable to have another girl show interest in me like that, but she's also a friend (which is even more awkward for me), and I would never want to hurt her. But I don't know what to do asdfghjkl;

uh... hm, I dunno what I would do in your shoes. Probably just kinda tell her that I'm not interested, but be nice about it? I'm not good at dealing with people, especially since I haven't had many people flirt with me at all aha ^^'

don't trust my advice about this because I don't even trust myself half the time asdfghjkl;'

yes see that's the smart thing

yeah, I get it >.<

try and hint then? Maybe don't flirt back or whatever you were doing in response? Just try and get her to ease off, because if she gets the response she wants, then she'll be encouraged to keep doing it? I dunno, sorry

I'll probably end up doing that.
I really only kinda flirted back once, and she took it the wrong way as me being interested so whoops >.<

It's just the spontaneous and random hugs/being touched that kinda unnerve me because eh, I've never been someone who appreciates contact and hugs and whatnot, and also covid still exists aha

heh, my mum gives me hugs and kisses all the damn time and that's probably one of the reasons why we don't get along :/

there are many reasons but that isn't the point

I really let a few of my friends hug me because it makes them happy and I care about them and they initiate it 99% of the time aha