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not really a rant, i'm just confused. i go by she/her pronouns in real life (fuck my homophobic/transphobic/generally unaccepting surroundings), but i use they/them online because it feels better for me. thing is, today, i heard someone say "oh, (name)'s right here, they're not busy" (by accident of course), and ..that also sounded.. not right. i'm not bothered by what people refer to me as in general, but at the same time, i haven't found anything really comfortable for me ever since i started questioning my gender. i have considered trying xe/xem/xyr, but i don't know, i'm not that familiar with neopronouns. i would prefer/am leaning towards an androgynous appearance as well, so they/xem? also stuck with my sexuality- since i don't know if i identify as lesbian anymore, and whether i'm on the ace-spectrum or not. so uh- any advice is appreciated. also, if you guys don't mind sort of dropping sentences sort of like "A sees a cat, xe pick it up" with different ones that would help too <3 |
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Neutral
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Ugh I feel you on this one. I know I'm gray sexual/romantic but gender is just chaos. I'm sorry I don't have any advice for this, I'm still figuring it out myself. For awhile I thought I was ace aro but it didn't feel quite right, learned about gray, and it just clicked. I'm planning on going through some lgbtq+ articles/lists and descriptions to see if any fit me. Maybe you might find something that fits you too by doing that? |
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Darkseeker
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Thanks, I'll try that :) Do you have any recommendations for sites or articles with accurate/good descriptions? |
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Neutral
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This website has a good amount of information. I also come across other people putting how they identify, and then look that up if Im not sure. Sometimes that leads you to more information. Also talking to people who are part of the lgbtq+ community, they might have some good resources. I havent been learning about or thinking about the way I identify until pretty recently, so theres people out there who have way better information than me lol |
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